Dont fall in love with a dreamer...

Most of us have heard that song. The assured dangers of falling in love with a dreamer. The truth is, there is no future in it at all. None

One of the biggest no-no's in life is to get emotionally attached to the wrong type of person. This is exactly why the slow and prayerful, if you believe in God approach; is the best kind.
I can tell you from experience that you will eventually have your heart ripped out. It doesn't matter if you give your all. If they do not or can not, disaster is ahead for you. Not  only will you hear the broken heart beat inside, you will close your eyes and feel the anguish that you never ever want to feel again. It is avoidable if you keep a short list to watch:


A] Is that person sincere and consistent?
B] Do they do what they say when and how they say they will
C] Am I fitting in comfortably in their schedule, or am I an afterthought?
D] Do they love animals? This usually means they value life and companionship
E] Is this just a physical attraction or is it a relationship where what means something to one, is also important to the other?
F] Can you see this person being the love of your life and a co-parent of your children?


Luke 14:28 LV "But don't begin until you count the cost. For who would begin construction of a building without first calculating the cost to see if there is enough money to finish it?                        *wisdom*

Everything in life has a cost. You need to check the price tag and see if it is affordable and if it is what you not only need but want.